Saturday, 16 August 2014

ENLARGING THE PERSPECTIVE

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Enlarging the Perspective


Today, I met Mr. Kapur after a long time.
“Where have you been all this while?” I asked.
”Well, I  have generally been at home,” he said, despondency dripping from each word he spoke. “What else do you expect? I am getting on in years. You know my age? I am sixty seven.”
“Sixty seven?” I laughed uproariously, “You call sixty seven old? What about me then? What am I?”
“It is not age alone. My knee is troubling me. I cannot walk properly.”
I said, “Is your knee troubling you or are you troubling your knee?”
He looked at me, puzzled. “What do you mean?”
“I mean, look at your weight . You have put on at least ten kgs since we met last. Don’t you realize how you are punishing your knees with all that extra weight?”
“Of course, I do. But it is a vicious circle. I can reduce weight by walking, but I cannot walk because of the pain.”
I was reminded of a conversation my mother once had with Sathya Sai Baba. She was requesting for his intervention in curing Papaji of the pain in his knees.
Baba said,”knees ko pain nahin hoga to aur kya hoga? Itna zyada wazan uthhana padta hai. Wazan kam hoga to pain apne aap chala jayega.”
Mother: ” Wazan kam kaise hoga? Isko bhookh lagta hai to khana dena padta hai.”
Baba laughed, “Maine kab kaha khana kam do. Bhook lagta hai to ek kilo cucumber de do. Do kilo cucumber de do. Us se wazan  nahin badhta hai. Cucumber bas pani hai. Jitna chahe utna cucumber kha sakta hai.”
Kapur asked with his usual innocence, “Cucumber kya hota hai?”
I clarified that cucumber is kheera.
“O kheera?” he made a face.
“And let me tell you one more thing. When I was sixty seven, I had this notion that I will live at best up to seventy. That gave me a time perspective of three years. What can you plan for three years? And that too the last three years of your life?”
“Exactly”, Kapur said half-humorously, “I have the same feeling. The reverse count has begun.”
“No, it has not.” I said vehemently. “ A very strange incident took place which changed my entire outlook on life.  My brother-in-law Kanwarji was going on a tour of Uttaranchal. He took my wife and me along. We were on our way to Badrinath. When we stopped at some place on the way, Kanwarji told me that he will go out for an hour to meet someone.
“Is it someone official?” I enquired.
“No, no, nobody official. You will laugh if I tell you.” Kanwarji replied.
“Try me,” I challenged him,”I don’t laugh easily.”
“If you insist,” he said, “Last time I was here, someone introduced me to a Panditji who lives in this village. My informant claimed that Panditji just looks at your face and forecasts the events in your life. He doesn’t need a horoscope. And his predictions  all come true.”
“Kanwarji, Kanwarji, “ I said in a tone of reprimand, “You are a scientist. Don’t tell me that you believe all that balderdash.”
Kanwarji is much younger to my wife, so I can take liberties with him. He made a rueful face.
“I told you, Bhai Sahib, that you will dismiss this whole thing with a laugh. But I can tell you that the three predictions that he made last time I was here have all come true.”
Goaded thus, I decided to accompany Kanwarji. The Panditji saw each one of our party individually. My turn came. I went in with a beating heart.
I was curious to see Panditji, but he was so ordinary if I had met him in the street, I would not have given him a second look.
“What is your question?”he asked.
“My age, “ I found myself blurting out.
“We don’t generally answer such queries, but you have come with Doctor sahib. I can say with the utmost confidence that you will live up to ninety two.”
He said many other things about me, but I hardly heard him. But ever since that day, my perspective on life has changed.
I now saw a stretch of twenty five years before me. One could start projects, learn new things, write books and do other things with the clear understanding that a quarter of a century was available.
“So, Mr. Kapur, do you see? The question is not about your present age. What matters is how long you will live.” I advised my friend of the Park.
“Go and find your Panditji. Your whole perspective can get enlarged.”

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                                                   (9th July,2014  785 words)

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